Wednesday, September 9, 2009

OUR INTERVIEW WITH BELLANAIJA.COM

Hi Guys!
Im very very very excited today!...Why, you ask?? Well, Tomi.theaspenshops.com has been featured in the wedding section of Bellanaija.com .... Yay!...
To read the article, Please go to:
Bellanaija.com and
click under "Weddings"...
Then BN Weddings: Favors for Life’s Biggest Event

Im soo excited and Many thanks to the Bella Naija Team!....;-)
And ofcourse, Thanks to all of our followers and customers...

While you're on Bellanaija.com, visit our site on http://www.tomi.theaspenshops.com/

;-)

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

OUR NAME HAS CHANGED!!!

Hi Guys....Hope everyone is doing GREAT!!!
Well, well, well!....We @ www.Tomi.kateaspenshops.com have been going through some minor changes and FINALLY!!!, We have CHANGED our name to: www.Tomi.Theaspenshops.com
There is NO MORE Kate guys!!..The "KATE" has been replaced with "THE".....
You like it?? yes??? no??? please bear with us...;)...We're still here to deliver stylish favors for all life's events!....

FYI: If you put in the old email address, it'll automatically put you on the new one!!!!

Love you guys!!!

Tomi Soyoye...

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

WEDDING FAVORS TIPS!!!

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Giving out bridal favors at weddings is a growing tradition around the world. Favors make a wonderful method of saying “Thank you” to the guests for attending, a wonderful keepsake that will remind them of the fun they had at this party, and also thanking them for the gifts they bring for the bride.
Popular favors include customized Cosmetic bags, Photo Albums, handbag holders, bottle stoppers, Luggage Tags and more. When planning a wedding or bridal shower, you’ll want to have some great favors for your guests and choosing the right favors could be quite challenging for some brides-to-be. Should you make them yourself? Or buy them? How much favors should you buy? What type of box, bag or ribbon would look best? And lots of other questions. Just remember that your wedding favors should be unique and personalized to your own taste, and also, to complement the theme of your wedding!
We’ve put together some helpful tips on choosing favors and website where you’ll find the most unique favors for any budget and wedding style.

1. Location, style and theme of wedding: Before purchasing favors, consider the location, style, and theme of your wedding. If the location or agenda of the ceremony will be anything except traditional, a theme wedding favor is likely the best option. For example, a beach wedding deserves beach favors. Welcome your guests and thank them for wedding gifts with a seashell.
For outside weddings in warm climates, you'll need to avoid favors that could melt (chocolates, frosted cookies, etc.), unless these are placed in an air-conditioned space for pick-up as guests leave the reception.


2. Time and hassle: If you're thinking about making your own favors, consider your wedding timeline and how much time you have (or don't have) to make and wrap the favors. Instead of going through all the hassle of making your own favors, buy it online and then personalize it to your own taste.
3. Age and Gender: Don’t forget to take the age and gender of your guests into account. While women might love a silk pillow sachet favor, most men won't relate -- meaning you may be stuck with dozens of favors "left behind" at the reception.
4. Cost: choose Inexpensive Wedding Favors. Low budget weddings may require less expensive favors. Choose items that are simple and not too pricey. If you wish to give more expensive, high-end favors but need to find a way to skim the fat, give one gift per couple by placing the favor between their two dinner plates, and tagging it with the couple's names. For your single friends, stick with one gift per person.
5. Decide on Packaging: When wrapping your favors, personalized stickers and ribbons are a lovely touch. Make sure your favors are personalized to your own taste. Choose packaging that coordinates with the linens and flowers. Make sure your favor packaging should make as much of an impact as what’s inside. Try bundling favors with multiple items that contribute to your wedding theme.
6. Select a Personalized Wedding Favor: Most couples want a wedding favor with more meaning. Add your own unique touch to your favors and make sure it reflects your style, personality and vision of the perfect wedding. After all, you are unique. Choose a favor as unique as you are.
7. Present Your Favors Right: Once you've found the perfect favor, and packaged and personalized each one with pretty papers and bows, you'll want to be sure each guest gets her hands on one, right? Decide on an "at the table" or "on the way out" location for your favors. If favors are large or colorful, placing them on the reception tables can take up precious table space or be distracting during the meal. Instead, many brides opt to place large trays (or a table) of favors in a hall or foyer where guests will exit. A tasteful sign -- "Please take one favor per guest with our compliments and thanks!" -- will let reluctant guests know that it's okay to pick up the gifts.

Dont forget to get your stylish favors at http://www.tomi.kateaspenshops.com/



Tomi Soyoye
xxx

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

BRIDAL SHOWER TIPS!

Showering the bride with friendship and love is the purpose of a bridal shower. Below are some tips for a lovely shower that she’ll remember forever.

1. Who will plan: Typically, the host of the party is the bride's maid. The bride's maid and bride work the details together. If it is a surprise shower, then the bride's family helps out.
3. Guest List: Organize your guest list by asking the bride and groom who they would like to have at the shower. Usually the bride and groom's mother will have a list of who they would like to invite. Get address, phone numbers and email addresses. Decide if it will be a "girl's only" shower or "couples".
4. Invitations: Invitations can range from the casual (a phone call) to the most formal (printed invitations). You decide what will work for your shower. Be sure to include all necessary information on the invitation.
5. Theme and Decorations: While you may feel intimidated about choosing a theme, just consider the couple. If they have lived together, they may not need a kitchen shower, but the bride would love pretty lingerie. If they are moving right after the wedding, cash will allow them to choose what they need.
8. Select the date & time: The bridal shower is normally around eight weeks before the wedding. Showers are held on weekends and during the week. Try to make the time and day convenient for everyone including any out-of-town guests.
10. Games: Every fun bridal shower includes at least one game. And don't forget the prizes! Getting everyone involved via party games- but choose those games with care. Find out as much as you can about the likes and dislikes of your guests, and fashion your activities to match the interests and personalities of your guests. Choose themes that all guests can relate to.
11. Entertainment: Make sure to offer your guests liquid refreshments and whatever else you have provided. Set the mood with lighted candles, flowers, and decorations. You want your guests to enjoy the day (or evening) as much as the guest of honor. Plan to have some music going in the background to set the mood. This will assure that early lapses in conversation are not pronounced. Another idea would be to choose a CD of wedding music that will set the tone and provide a talking point with regard to the upcoming wedding. When the shower is over, give the CD to the bride. This will be of help to her when deciding upon what music to request for her walk down the aisle or for her first dance with her new husband.
12. Favors: Giving out bridal shower favors at such occasions is a growing tradition around the world. When planning a bridal shower, you’ll want to have some great bridal shower favors for your guests. Popular favors include customized Cosmetic bags, Photo Albums, handbag holders, bottle stoppers, Luggage Tags and more.
13. Toast: At some time during the meal, there should be a toast to the bride. Mimosa (orange juice with champagne) is always a hit at a brunch. If you don't want to serve liquor, there are many good non-alcoholic champagne choices available now.
14. Flick! Flick! Flick!: Be sure to have a camera handy to take plenty of photos. The bride will appreciate photos of her relatives and friends taken on this important occasion. Take some photos while the bride unwraps her gifts - there will be lots of smiles to capture.
15. Gifts: Schedule the gift unwrapping well before the party is due to end. Guests who have to leave at a fixed time are often disappointed when they don't get to see the bride open the gift that they have chosen for her. For the gift unwrapping ceremony, you will need a prominent chair for the bride, and a writing pad for the gift list.

While a bridal shower is especially for the bride, make it an occasion that all guests will remember fondly - including the hostess!

Monday, August 3, 2009

FAVORS OF THE WEEK

...And we're BACK!! Yippie....
Back with the FAVORS of the week..... These Butterflies Laser-Cut Favor Boxes are selling really fast! and Im not surprised at all..;-)
Ive gotten few emails from people this past weekend telling me how satisfied they are with their purchase!
To all our followers and customers, THANK YOU very much...We really appreciate your business!
As always, check us out at www.Tomi.kateaspenshops.com


Favor box is made of glossy, heavyweight paper with a pastel base and white cover with a laser-cut butterfly that allows the pastel base color to show through.

Available in pastel pink and sage green

A color-coordinated, satin ribbon and bow and a finely detailed, metal, silver-finish butterfly charm accent the favor box.

Fill with Jordan almonds, gourmet chocolates, jelly beans or another candy
Box measures 2” square
Some assembly required Sold in sets of 24

....what are u waiting for?!?!...Check us out @ www.Tomi.kateaspenshops.com

BOUQUET/FLOWERS

HI Guys! Hope everyone is well…. I came across these beautiful flowers and I thought id share it with you guys… Also, did a little research on the origin of flowers…
Flowers herbs have been used in weddings since the beginning of time as a way of showing love and well wishes to everyone. The actual first recorded use of wedding flowers dates back to the ancient Greeks. Flowers and plants were used to make a crown for the bride to wear and were considered a gift of nature. Bridesmaids would make the floral decorations including garlands, bridal bouquet and boutonniere. Often, the bridesmaids would make poesies for each guest to wear as a symbol of thanks.
Back when herbs where still used in weddings, a kissing knot was made with rosemary and roses tied together. The kissing knot was suspended over the heads of that bride and groom over the head table at the reception where the bridal party was sitting. This was said to bring good luck and lots of love to the couple and everyone sitting at the table. Small flower nosegays were placed beside every plate of the guests in attendance at the reception. The flowers left for the guests were chosen for the guests to ensure them happiness and long lives.
Check out these beautiful bouquets….They’re gorgeous, aren’t they?!?!...
and of course, don’t forget to check us out @
www.Tomi.kateaspenshops.com “stylish favors for all life’s events”

My Fav...Velvet Ribbon and Pearl Pushpins

Soft Garden roses

School-themed summer wedding

Rose, Peony, and Hydrangea bouquet

Quite different...Pomanders of Pale Pink Roses

Mix of Dahlias, Roses and cala Lillies

Love it..


Cymbidium Orchids

Friday, July 24, 2009

BRIDAL SHOES! SHOES! SHOES!

Hi Guys! Im back..Hope you are all well....
At this point, im guessing you guys have checked out the website by now..If not, please do! You'll love all of our Favors! They're very stylish and unique for all life's events!... http://www.tomi.kateaspenshops.com/
So, Yesterday, I went to my sister's place to hang-out with her and her fiance..and help her pack her stuff... Unfortunately we didn't get any packing or cleaning done (lol), but we did spend some time together..We played tennis {well, her fiance and his friend} while we {sis and I} sat and talked about any and everything!
Unfortunately, there was no internet around so i couldn't blog..;-(... I think its about time i join the band-waggon and get a black-berry, or should I say "CRACK-berry"...lol

So, on to today's topic..BRIDAL SHOES!!! I love love love Shoes..If you wanna make me happy, buy me shoes and ill love you forever....Lol!
Check out the beautiful shoes below...Every and Any bride will fall in love with them!...;-)
I love the fact that you can rock these on your wedding day AND wear it afterwards...

Touch Ups Joyce



Touch Ups Charisma{Love the fact that its not white, but don't see anything glamorous about it}

Giuseppe Zanotti
Martinez Valero- Waverly
Martinez Valero- Vanity...{Absolutely Gorgeous}...
Martinez Valero- Dalton
Martinez Valero- Caprice

Martinez Valero {Very different but nice..}
Martinez Valero
Martinez Valero

Martinez Valero

Martinez Valero
Badgeley Mischka
Martinez Valero...{My least Favorite, but hey!}

Badgeley Mischka... {I absolutely love it.. I just might get it..;-)..}
Badgeley Mischka...{Love it..But this will get uncomfortable after a while}
...Yea, i think i just fell in love with Martinez Valero... Love their shoes!
Tomi...

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

RINGS!

Hi Guys!
Hope everyone is doing really well! Cause I am!
So, today's topic is about RINGS! Yes, ladies and Gentlemen..Wedding engagement Rings and Bands! My oldest sister recently got engaged and boi! I love her ROCK....
Now i know most women want that big SURPRISE PROPOSAL! but what if the proposal was cute and all, but the ring isn't?? What now.. Do you let him know how unhappy you are with the ring, OR do you just suck it up and just appreciate the effort and thought??? Well, Im a very Blunt person and trust me, I will let him know how i feel about the ring... Of course, not immediately but eventually, i'll let him know! Remember, there're nice ways of showing things...

I remember going to my sister's place one time and i opened her laptop. righ there on the desktop, she had a link to the pictures of rings that she loves! Genius idea right?!... I thought it was really funny and cute! There was no way for her man not to see that..Lol!
Nowadays, most girls let their partner know the EXACT {or similar} ring that they want! I plan to give him lots and lots of options!
Also, women, make sure you get your husband-to-be a wedding band that he'll love and appreciate! its NOT only about you...
So, check out these beautiful rings.. oh, and wedding Bands for men...I love each and every one of them! Enjoy...

VERRAGIO.... My 1ST CHOICE.... BEAUTIFUL!



I doubt there's any man that wouldn't fall in love with this Ring!


My 2ND Choice... I LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!



MY 3RD CHOICE!!!!.....











These Rings are all BEAUTIFUL and very reasonable {price wise}!!! Check out Theknot.com
Tomi...
www.Tomi.kateaspenshops.co m

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

FAVORS OF THE WEEK!!!

Every week, (sometimes twice a week), we'll be highlighting our "Favor" of the week.... Order yours @ http://www.tomi.kateaspenshops.com/ before they run out ;-)

Here's this week's "Favor of the week".....


Something Blue - the CUTEST little stack of fragrant soaps presented in the most ADORABLE way! Just imagine one at each place, center plate at the reception and you’ll realize how quickly these little favors are going to catch on!

Tomi...
www.Tomi.kateaspenshops.com

PACKAGING OPTIONS!!!

I’ve gotten few emails regarding different ways to pack your favors! And make them different!...So below is a picture showing you different ways to make your favors more personal and different!….


Neat, no? We hope you’ve picked up a pointer or two and remember to have fun mixing and matching your favors!....Add your own taste to it..;-)

Tomi...
www.Tomi.kateaspenshops.com

GIFTS FOR BRIDESMAIDS!!!

BRIDES! BRIDES! BRIDES!

Im certain that all you lovely brides are making serious preparations for your BIG day! Meeting with florists, one more visit to double check the venue, Make-up and Dress!!!

How about your Bridesmaids?!?!.... we hope these ladies gifts are included in your To-do-list....Just in case it slipped your mind, Tomi.kateaspenshops.com is here to remind you! We have lots of gifts to say “Thank You”…

Sure, there are the traditional jewelry gifts for memories, but what about something fun and useful?How about our “Welcome Bag” for each of your bridesmaids? What a nice treat when they check into a hotel before all the festivities! And we have just the thing - the Cosmopolitan gift line. Cute coozies for the parties, a handy manicure set - perfectly purse-sized for last minute nips and chips in the polish, a “cutely-cosmo” pair of flips to wear to the pedicure session, and a travel bag! There’s also a folding mirror! Personalize them all with an initial and voila! You have a thoughtful gift, not too expensive, with lots of practical uses! Tuck the coozie, the manicure set and the mirror neatly into the travel bag and set out on the bathroom vanity in the hotel room next to the flips for maximum impact! Cute, cute, cute, no?....;-)
Tomi...
xoxo

Sunday, July 19, 2009

ORDERS FOR NIGERIA, DEC 09

Hello Everyone! Thank You for stopping by!! Hope you've visited the website http://www.tomi.kateaspenshops.com/ to view and order our beautiful favors!

BRIDES! BRIDES! BRIDES!!!
We are currently taking orders for this coming December for brides getting married in Nigeria! Im sure you guys are aware that December is def a wedding season in Nigeria! ;-).... I'll be there to personally deliver all orders so PUT IN YOUR ORDERs TODAY!!!
Since I can't take international orders via the website, i'll be working with you one-on-one to get your orders...So, email me @{
Tomi.kateaspenshops@gmail.com} or send me a message via this blog!!!
And of course, we're not only delivering wedding favors, we have tons of beautiful favors for bridal showers, baby showers, birthday and anniversary parties, Thanksgiving dinners that can be delivered too!

For everyone that has put their orders in, THANK YOU for allowing us to serve your favor needs....

Tomi Soyoye

www.Tomi.kateaspenshops.com

STYLISH FAVORS FOR ALL LIFE'S OCCASIONS....